Who is superior at Turtle…Guys or Girls?
…And here we go! What up guys? I’m back with a nice new issue on nightclubs. In women’s studies today, we discussed who was superior in nightclubs. We debated for the entire time period, but really it was just me arguing my point against all the bro-haters. The girls in class were arguing that they were subordinate to guys for many reasons, including have free cover and drinks from guys who come up to them. Are they really complaining about this? Let’s go to Turtle once, and I’ll prove all my points with clear evidence…Alright, first off the girls were saying there’s a hidden message that they’re subordinate to men because the guys have to pay for cover. This is because they have more financial power, and girls are seen as weaker in many different aspects. Are you kidding me right now!? I’d love to go into a nightclub or our own personal sleazy bar Turtle with the knowledge of free cover. If I didn’t say what was on my mind, I would’ve exploded. Then they were arguing that guys buy them drinks, and creep on them without asking them to dance. Apparently, we put our hands on their bodies without permission, and they don’t like it. Now granted, many guys at Turtle are creepers and go up to girls dancing provocatively, without asking them to dance respectfully. BUT LADIES, NOT ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THIS! You don’t understand that there are decent guys out there, and not too hard to find. You just have to open your eyes.
The girls were then blaming us for putting them up on the pedestal. Well, if you’re gonna dress the way the generic girl at Turtle dresses, then yeah you will get attention. It’s not our fault you’re barely wearing any clothes and you’re looking good. But when we genuinely want to talk to you and are interested in you, some of us are intimidated to go up to you when you’re in your pack of girlfriends. So we offer to buy you a drink so we can get a little alone time and small talk. You brush us off and reject us when we ask you to dance, sometimes to stroke your ego.
Don’t tell me that girls are the ones who are weaker in this situation. In clubs, girls have the power. Guys can advance all they want and buy them all kinds of drinks and shower them with attention and pick up lines ,but if the girl doesn’t want anything to do with it, then we lose. Girls can reject drinks, walk away, make up excuses on the spot, or flat out just say no. If a guy calls a girl a “bitch” or “ho” to his dudes, it’s only because of a defense mechanism. Now I don’t agree with that form, because no girl should be called those derogatory terms because she wasn’t feeling him, but let’s be honest. Some girls dress up and go with their girls to feed their ego, get the love and attention they desire for one reason or another, and then leave the club with confidence. This confidence can translate into “bitchiness” when it carries on in daily life such as in classes or the diner.
But some guys are just trying to meet some girls where they know it’s okay to be a little sexual. In daily life, when guys go up to girls, girls immediately assume they have a hidden agenda. Sure the girl may be cute or hot, but perhaps the guy wants to really know the girl first because she seems cool and down to earth. THINK ABOUT THAT…perfect example is the movie Hitch with Will Smith. Girls, I suggest you watch it.The girls were then arguing that the guys always make the first move and all that. Now I’m laughing hysterically at this. I know for a fact that guys would love a girl who makes the first move. It’s one of the greatest feelings when a girl across the room gives you a little cute smile or goes up to you and starts chatting, or asking to hang out later on next weekend. Girls can make the first moves too, they’re just too scared to because it’s against the social norms. Well I say forget all that, and BE A NONCONFORMIST! If you like a guy and you want him to notice, make it happen. It’s all on you
That’s all I got for now ladies and gents. Remember, not all guys are creepers and there is equality out there. Girls, please try to understand my point of view. I’m not attacking nor subjecting you, merely trying to make you understand my own personal thoughts based on experiences. Share your opinions, I’d love to see what you all think.
Keep on rockin,
Rosh
